Stability is the Four of Wands love Tarot meaning. You will draw the Four of Wands when all is well (or is going to be well) in your home life and partnerships.
The Four of Wands is a very family orientated card. For the period of time which the Four of Wands represents, your family will be on your mind. Therefore, if you’re looking for reassurance about a family matter or issue, the Four of Wands is the card you will want to see.
As it symbolizes the family, the Four of Wands also represents the home. Perhaps, you’re considering making a house move or will in the future. If you desire an uproot, the Four of Wands is a good omen. Often, it will be a family home in the cards as opposed to a ‘lads pad’ or apartment.
On a minor level, there could be home improvements. While this may be stressful, do not worry; all will end well, and you will have your house just as you want it.
In general, times will be happy. Relationships, jobs, and work will be stable for a short time, at least. As it predicts a comfortable outcome, Four of Wands in a future position is desirable. If there is a particular area of you’re life which you are concerned about, the Four of Wands should put you at ease.
Although the Four of Wands is a positive card, there will be times when it appears as a negative or a drawback. In these cases, it can mean that you’re too introverted and not willing to put yourself out there. You rarely venture out past your comfort zone and are too afraid to mingle with new people in a strange place. Your need to feel like you belong to something or somewhere is also putting a damper on your creativity and independence.
Four of Wands Love Tarot Meaning
For love readings, the Four of Wands is a good card to get; it means that they find comfort in your company and would rather have you around than not. It can also symbolize the fact that they see you as someone who has ‘long-term partner’ potential, not just a fling. In fact, the Four of Wands is one of my Tarot cards which indicates love.
However, if the Four of Wands appears as a negative or in a sinister-looking spread, it can mean that – although your partner sees you as marriage material – they may not be ready just yet to make that commitment. If your lover seems overly childish or difficult to pin down beware: just because they see you as wifey material doesn’t mean they’re ready to put a ring on it. I would be especially cautious when your Tarot spread includes a ‘lonely’ card such as The Hermit.
Although the Four of Wands is not always a marriage card per se, it marks romantic seriousness. The Four of Wands can mean that you will soon set up home with your partner, which of course, is a notable commitment.
(If you would like more detailed love and relationship Tarot meanings for the Four of Wands, be sure to check out my Love Tarot Meanings e-book.)
Four of Wands Feelings Tarot Meaning
The Four of Wands can mark a desire for your love (or potential lover) to settle down and have a family. They would like someone to live with, as they often get lonely on their own. Your lover/potential lover is searching for a serious relationship.
Alternatively, the Four of Wands can mean that your lover wants to bring you around their friends. Your partner may even want to show you off to their wider community.
Four of Wands Future Tarot Meaning
I often interpret the Four of Wands as the purchase of a new home. The home you will buy will make you much happier than the house you currently inhabit.
It is a very good sign to get a Four of Wands in an outcome position for love Tarot readings: it can mean that you will set up a happy home with your lover. Even if all does not last between you and your current partner, the Four of Wands is the reassurance that you will one day be in a comfortable, stable relationship with someone you will live with.
Yes or No with The Four of Wands Love Tarot Meaning
General – The Four of Wands is usually a yes for most types of questions.
Do they like me? – The Four of Wands is a sign that the person you’re reading about is comfortable around you.
Am I pregnant? – I do not read the Four of Wands as a card that predicts pregnancy or conception. However, some readers do read the Four of Wands this way, so it just depends on how you would interpret it.
Is this relationship going to last? – Yes, this relationship is going to last for the foreseeable future.
Does the future of this look promising? – Yes, this situation looks promising the way it is. However, if you want a significant change, the Four of Wands is not so great.
Am I going to reconcile with my ex? – It does not seem likely that your ex-lover will come back soon because they are currently comfortable with where they are, but that is not to say that they will not return in the future.
The Four of Wands as a Negative, Weakness or Obstacle
When the Four of Wands appears in a negative, weakness, or obstacle Tarot spread position, this means that you’re too introverted. You also may be the type of person who gets too attached to what you are used to. You need to put yourself out of your comfort zone. Try meeting new people and having new experiences.
The Four of Wands can also appear as a negative when you or someone else involved in the situation is too comfortable with the way in which things are. If you desire change, the Four of Wands is not a reassuring card to receive in your Tarot reading.
The Four of Wands as a Positive, Strength or Advantage
When the Four of Wands appears in a positive, strength or advantage Tarot spread position, this means that you will soon purchase property or buy a new home. If you are happy about the place you’re living, the Four of Wands just predicts that you will be part of a community.
In some cases, the Four of Wands can appear as a positive when relationships are about to become more serious. In your relationship, you are going to feel comfortable, safe, and secure. A major commitment could be on the horizon.
That’s all for the Four of Wands Tarot card meanings! Remember, you can discover more relationship Tarot meanings by checking out the Love Tarot Meanings e-book.